In life, a lot of things are beyond our control, for example: The speciality is not the only one that we want , what we can do is that since we have come, let us stay and enjoy it. Moreover, you might not be engaged in the work of the originally specialized one after you graduate. If calm in the face of actual life , we could make our life be substantiated . Either everybody is suitable for in the love in the university , perhaps you are this kind of people. Since emotional life can't bring happiness to you, why not try another life style ?